Note To You Little Sister

Easy Ways to Get a Man's Attention (that actually work!)


#1 -Don't be BORING

Don't be shy, meek, timid, average or a Plain Jane. In a word, don't be boring! Pay close attention to the girl in the room that gets the most attention- she's vibrant, exudes confidence and seemingly is having a great time. Don't go overboard as to appear disingenuous, but make an effort to smile and work the room. Men are attracted to self confidence, which in turn reads a sexy. 

#2 -The power of "the look"

Literally, if you like a guy give him "the look." Catch his eye just long enough to show him you're interested (but look away coyly before you appear creepy). This tells him you're open to advancements...sometimes they just need a nudge

#3 - Get an A for EFFORT!!

You don't have to be conventionally "hot" to get a man's attention, but you sure as hell need to be visually pleasing and make an effort (we women would expect the very same out of them). If you're on the market, make sure you take care of your body, dress well, get your hair done, whiten your teeth and put on perfume. It goes a loonnnngggg way.

#4 -Approach him for God's Sake!!

Want his attention? Go get it! There is no shame in approaching a man, but be sure to read the signals. If he's blowing you off then walk away.

#5 -Don't be "that girl"

Sometimes what's most appealing is that you're the polar opposite of the drunk, loud and crazy girl at the bar. If the guy you've been eyeing all night seems annoyed by the crazy girl, spark a connection by being the "anti-her."

#6 - Play with the boys

If you love football, play poker, surf, or play video games then don't be afraid to bring it up in conversation. At the end of the day, a guy just wants to marry his best friend. The more things you have in common the better!

#7 - Engage in stimulating banter, conversation or "verbal foreplay"

Having witty, interesting or clever conversation is an easy way to grab a man's attention. Engaging in flirtatious banter shows you're a confident girl who's not desperate for his attention (which means the hunt is on). There's nothing sexier then hot girls with spark-plug personalities and loads of charm.

...though, don't take it too far or you'll just seem combative and bitchy.

#8 - Leveling the Playing Field

Looking, dressing and acting like everyone else doesn't help your dating odds. Don't put yourself in direct competition with other women if you don't have to. Level the playing field by being the most unique and interesting version of yourself. Men are visual, so whether your at school, at work or out with friends, ask yourself how you can stand out from all the other beautiful women around you.

#9 - Embrace being low maintenance and drama-free.

One sure fire way to lose a guy is by being a stereotypical "crazy girl." Keep your drama out of the dating scene! For starters...don't tell him about your collection of barbie dolls, act like a bi&*h to the waitress at dinner, or complain about the concert seats he got. Remember, dating is an audition.